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Balancing joy and big worries in sports

In this blog post, our team’s Natalie Bergman talks about
big feelings that can come up for kids in the context of sports.

Growing sports Superpowers is not always easy for kids

If you have recently visited the Jimmie Condon ice skating arena, you might have spotted our playful rink board advertisement. It has given us cause to reflect on how kids can have so much fun being active in many ways, including individual and team sports, like figure skating, skiing, or hockey.

From the stands, it is wonderful to see how much fun kids can have being active. But we also know that alongside that child-like joy, sports can bring added pressures and worries for young minds — and their parents.

At Kids Reconnect, we are here to help kids, parents, and families navigate tricky challenges like these.

Research shows that while participating in sports promotes physical and emotional well-being for kids, it can also factor into stirring up a myriad of worries. Studies show that around 35% of young athletes quit sports each year, and many never return. The reasons for this can be complex, but one major factor is the mismatch between a child’s readiness and the level of competition they face.

Our team of child therapists can help parents and offer kids tools and strategies to help them balance the excitement of competitive and performance sports with their emotional well-being. Whether it’s managing pre-game nerves or building confidence after setbacks, we’re here to help kids (playfully and joyfully!) grow and thrive.

Reference

Merkel, D. L. (2013). Youth sport: positive and negative impact on young athletes. Open Access Journal of Sports Medicine, 4, 151-160 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3871410/

Meet the author

Natalie Bergman, MA, RPsych, CPT
Natalie Bergman, MA, RPsych, CPTChild Psychologist at Kids Reconnect
Natalie is a Director and co-founder at Kids Reconnect. She is an experienced child psychologist and Certified Play Therapist who uses her professional expertise, playfulness, and caring heart Superpowers to emotionally connect with children, helping them heal using play therapy and warm heart-to-heart conversations. To help parents understand and connect with their child with love, gentleness, and patience, she uses her profound insights into the world of children.

Meet the editor

Ana Hoepfner, BEc
Ana Hoepfner, BEcCommunications at Kids Reconnect
Ana is a writer and designer who delivers business results through creative, joyful communications that surprise and delight. Leveraging her 15+ year track record of successfully building and boosting corporate, personal, community, and non-profit local and international brands, Ana designed, copywrote, and manages the “spark-tacular” Kids Reconnect, Couples Reconnect, and CRCG websites, including this blog.

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