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Playful ways to grow your child’s skills this Halloween

In this blog post, our team’s Natalie Bergman talks about
how parents can enjoy Halloween play in gentle, therapeutic, fun ways

Halloween is here!

It’s that (candy) time of year again. trick-or-treating is around the corner, and while we’re all excited for costumes, candy, and creepy fun, it’s also a great time to explore emotions, practice social skills, and overcome fears through play. Here at Kids Reconnect we love combining Halloween with fun activities that help children grow their emotional and social skills (their Superpowers!)

Imagination, fun, and play are not just for kids. At KidsReconnect we use our imagination year-round, in many creative ways — kids, teens, and grown-up kids-at-heart alike.

At Halloween, it can be especially fun to let our imagination sparkle

Encouragement builds courage.

During a play therapy session, we encourage your child to pick a costume that makes them feel strong or brave. This is a great way to build confidence. Whether they decide to be a Superhero, a singing superstar, a fierce tiger, or a magical fairy, we play and talk about how different characters handle challenges.

Some children might be experiencing social anxiety or they  might feel nervous in new environments. Dressing up in costumes can help them feel more comfortable as they experience taking on different identities. Role-playing gives kids a chance to express emotions they might otherwise keep hidden. During play therapy, we often use costumes to allow kids to explore parts of themselves they might not yet feel confident showing in daily life.

Sometimes Halloween can feel scary

Halloween can be a good time to gently talk to your child about what scares them and use this as an opportunity to discuss ways to face everyday fears.

In play therapy, we therapists often help kids to explore and conquer fears using imagination. In EmPOWERland at Kids Reconnect, during child therapy sessions we sometimes practice “scary” situations in a safe, playful way, like making movies or telling silly ghost stories.

As their parent, you too can also use Halloween to ask your child, “What would make you feel better in a scary situation?” Listen to their scary or tricky feelings with an open heart. Respond with validation, non-judgemental curiosity, and empathy, then help them find creative ways to feel better.

Have a safe, playful, happy Halloween!

Halloween is the the perfect opportunity to nurture your child’s emotional well-being and social skills while enjoying some cool, ghoulish fun together. We hope this Halloween brings you and your little one lots of smiles, creativity, and playful moments — even a little candy, if you like sweet treats.

Meet the author

Natalie Bergman, MA, RPsych, CPT
Natalie Bergman, MA, RPsych, CPTChild Psychologist at Kids Reconnect
Natalie is a Director and co-founder at Kids Reconnect. She is an experienced child psychologist and Certified Play Therapist who uses her professional expertise, playfulness, and caring heart Superpowers to emotionally connect with children, helping them heal using play therapy and warm heart-to-heart conversations. To help parents understand and connect with their child with love, gentleness, and patience, she uses her profound insights into the world of children. Can you guess what her Halloween costume will be this year?

Meet the editor

Ana Hoepfner, BEc
Ana Hoepfner, BEcCommunications at Kids Reconnect
Ana is a writer and designer who delivers business results through creative, joyful communications that surprise and delight. Leveraging her 15+ year track record of successfully building and boosting corporate, personal, community, and non-profit local and international brands, Ana designed, copywrote, and manages the “spark-tacular” Kids Reconnect, Couples Reconnect, and CRCG websites, including this blog. She loves handing out big candy bars to her neighbourhood trick-or-treaters.

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